Parents opinion may be differ from you opinion due to difference in age, experience, knowledge etc. But there is no doubt that their intention is noble. Another thing that, never give punishment to parents for their mistake. We should excuse their mistake. Lord Sriram never disrespect to Mother Kaikei. show gratitude and respect, considering them as a direct manifestation of God. Follow their guidance to live an ideal life, while simultaneously dedicating your heart to God, and maintain a pure heart through selfless actions and emotional purity.
Gratitude and respect
- Acknowledge their gifts: Recognize that your parents are the source of your existence and everything you have, so show them gratitude.
- Follow their example: Obey your parents, like Sri Rama followed his father’s command, and lead a life that makes them proud.
- Offer them love and service: Love and respect your parents, as this will lead to happiness and security in your own life and for your children.
Devotion to God
- Dedicate your heart to God: While respecting your parents, focus your ultimate devotion on God, who is the ultimate source of blessings and grace.
- Explain your spiritual path: If your parents don’t understand your spiritual commitment, lovingly explain your heart to them, as they only wish for your welfare and will eventually understand.
- Understand God’s role: Remember that even a mother’s prayers require God’s grace to be effective.
Character and behavior
- Lead an ideal life: Follow in their footsteps and lead a life of virtue, which is the best way to honor them.
- Maintain a pure heart: Strive for a clean and pure heart through good actions, which gives you the strength to overcome difficulties and the world.
- Control your anger: Avoid getting angry, as it weakens your nerves and spirit, making you like a demon, according to this SSSCHV article.
- Set boundaries and priorities: Avoid distractions from work and social life to spend quality time with your parents, and focus on the present moment with them
At the same time, parents should not be selfish to their children. They should not do such work so that children should not disrespect them.
Whatever you give to children , that will return to you. You are god, guru for your children, therefore, never give up them. You shall be a pillar for them in all situation.
Love them unconditionally, in turn they will ,love you.
Sacrfice for them, they will sacrifice to you.